I know that Christmas gift giving is mostly for the kids, so don’t think for a minute that I am suggesting that you dip into your kids’ toy budgets to pick up a little something for yourself. I would never suggest that. After all, they are your babies! And they absolutely need another Barbie/Thomas train/tech gadget that makes them zone out like little robot children. They NEED these things. But sometimes, you need things too. Or want them so much they feel like needs. (For a clear explanation on wants vs. needs, ask my soon-to-be-7-year-old, Eva). I have combed the internet and the stores and done some pretty exhaustive research to find the very very best accessory and fashion gifts for 2014. (My pleasure!) This is the luxe list, and includes some small splurges and some serious investments. Tomorrow, the steal list. Take your pick. Either way, they virtually guarantee a stylish Christmas.